The daughters of Zelophehad (Numbers 26:33; 27:1-11)

One of my favorite books is Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice . The plot centers on the Bennett family, a husband and wife with five daughters whom they are eager to marry off.  They would be eligible matches if there were not an impediment - an entailment that prevented Mr. Bennett’s daughters from inheriting his estate.  Should he die before they were all married, they would be destitute and evicted from their childhood home by the next closest male relative. Being unable to inherit brought into question whether they would have happy and secure futures.

The state of the Bennett daughters reminds me of five biblical sisters, Mahlah, Milcah, Noah, Hoglah and Tirzah – the daughters of Zelophehad.  Zelophehad and his family were descendants of Manasseh, son of Joseph - Israelites leaving the slavery of Egypt for the Promised Land. Zelophehad died during the 40 years in the wilderness leaving no male heir to carry his family name back to the land of Abraham.  At this point daughters did not automatically inherit from their father’s estate. Should a daughter lose her family’s inheritance simply because there is no son to take the father’s place?  These sisters said no and waited for the right time to plead their case to their leader, Moses.

Their timing was pivotal. The census had been completed at the end of 40 years in the wilderness and Moses’ job as Israel’s leader was coming to an end.  The number of God’s people had been confirmed, now it was time to prepare to divide the land among its heirs.  It was time for Zelophehad’s daughters to make their request known to their leader.  They came to the appropriate forum, before the tabernacle where Moses and high priest Eliezer heard cases.  Zelophehad’s daughters ask for his inheritance to be passed on to them to maintain his line in the promised land.  Moses steps back and does not give them an answer from his reasoning but turns to God for clarity.  This was unheard of in Israel – a daughter having the same rights as a son at the death of a father when there no male children.  What would God say?  The Almighty stated that the daughters’ request was just and reasonable. He told Moses to give them the portion of the land that should go to their father.  God is not only clear in His response; but set legal precedent for generations to come, giving details on how to divide property when a man had no sons, brothers or cousins to take his place.  There is a saying in Israel “there are no heir-less men in Israel,” this I believe comes from this issue in Numbers.

 Because Mahlah, Milcah, Noah, Hoglah and Tirzah asked, they entered into “son ship” in terms of inheritance in the house of Israel.  Zelophehad means “first rupture” or first born.  Because of his first-born status, Zelophehad was to receive a triple portion above his other brothers, which was bestowed to his daughters.

The daughters of Zelophehad helped create new law and obtained divine inheritance, but how does that help us today?  These women knew something many of us don’t.  That God is a God of coverings.  He covers us with emotional health.  He covers us with financial provision. He covers us with the blood of Jesus.  We have an inheritance given to us by a living Heavenly Father who loves to pour out gifts on his children.  We don’t have to beg or plead. It doesn’t matter to Him if we are male or female.  Through Jesus Christ, we are “sons” with all rights and privileges. Go boldly to the Throne.

Until next time,

Xylia

An Alabaster Jar Praise (Matthew 26:6-13)

by Xylia Sparks-Davis on 10/04/12

I have a good friend whose favorite flower is the gardenia.  The flower is a perfect match for her personality.  She is a person of pure intention; not really into being the center of attention; but you always know when she has been in the midst of a situation.  Her presence is always felt.  She is the one with a kind word at just the right time or a warm smile for a lonely child. Her kindness and meekness – strength yielded to God’s control – fills the room long after she has left.  Her fragrance lingers.

Do you have an essence that takes over a room?  The woman with the alabaster jar did.  She is unnamed in Matthew 26 but in John 12:3 is revealed as Mary of Bethany, the sister of Martha and Lazarus.  Her fragrance was that of uncontained praise.  Her offering of choice was spikenard oil, a cousin of the herb valerian.

To get the essential oil, spikenard plant must be crushed to release the oil.  Mary had been crushed.  The illness and subsequent death of her brother Lazarus had turned her world upside down.  Mary and Martha were not recorded as being married so their economic stability would have depended upon their brother.  Her family unit had been compromised.  Lazarus was the emotional balance between Mary and Martha’s temperaments – the difference between peace and confusion.

Mary had wept bitterly at the loss of her brother…until Jesus.  Jesus hit the reset button and restored everything.  Lazarus was alive and Mary was overjoyed.  There were no words that could fully express her rapture; but she had to do something! She had to show Jesus how she truly felt.  He was more than just her friend; He was her Lord!

Finally, she found means and opportunity.  When she released the contents of that alabaster jar at that dinner party her intent was clear – to show her admiration, love and honor for Jesus.  When the jar was closed, no one else would know how she felt. Once it was released, not only would the whole room know but also every generation that came after her would feel the depth of her praise.

I find it interesting that she chose spikenard for her offering.  Spikenard was used in the healing of emotional conditions. It was incredibly expensive and according to John, she had a pound of it – a year’s wages worth.  What she had just lived through a situation that was incredibly expensive to her emotional well-being.  The spikenard oil was bought not merely with money but with tests and trials. She had been crushed but the oil that flowed from her was not bitterness or pain – but praise to the One who restored her.  Mary’s praise was in proportion to her trial. 

Mary’s spikenard was also the spice used by the Bride in Song of Solomon.   Frankincense and Myrrh were spices used to adorn the groom; the same two spices that were presented as gifts to Jesus at His birth.  He is more than prophet, priest and king. He is the bridegroom awaiting a celebrating bride – the church.  I wonder if Mary realized that she stood in for the Bride of Christ when she poured out her adoration upon Jesus?

Some will say that your praise is a waste; that your time should be spent on other more “worthwhile” endeavors.   Not so, your praise is a sweet aroma in the throne room of God.  Jesus waits to smell your essence. You are His beloved Bride.  Your praise is more costly than any Chanel perfume.  He waits for your precious oil to be poured out.

Your test has past and your praise is the testimony.  Let your aroma linger long after you are gone.

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1.Doris A. St. Juste said on 10/12/12 - 10:07PMWow....wow..did I say wow?!? Beautifully written, “Xy”…my sister. Truly blessed I am to be thought of in that manner. You know that I don’t see myself that way, but it reminds me of something you said to me some time ago. You shared with me that it’s a covering. A covering that those around me see, but I didn’t…still don’t. One placed there by the Lord above. God uses us, in the filth that we’re in to point others to Him. Thank you, “Xy”, for those kind words. Love you, my sistah. Shabbat Shalom. ;^D

The Widow’s Oil (2 Kings 4:1-7)

by Xylia Sparks-Davis on 09/27/12

The widow of Second Kings Four was married to a man who was seeking God, a follower of Elisha and the school of the prophets.  Scripture does not state what happened to him – just that he died.  When death comes there is plenty to do – preparing the body, conducting the services, and the settling of accounts.

It was time to administer her husband’s estate.  The ledgers are opened only to find that there is far more debt than money to go around.  Her husband had been seeking spiritual wisdom but had not gotten his financial house in order.  He had not prepared for the time when he would no longer be there for his family. Maybe he thought that he had time to make the debt right- but now he was gone and the ones he tried to protect inherited his burden.

 A sure rule is- when there is debt, there will be debt collectors.  I can see her creditors in my head now, sending letter after letter; notice after notice. They did not care about her pain, her loss or her circumstances.  The creditors only cared about the money. There were no wages to garnish – she did not have a paying job. Her family was her life. Her home was her domain.  Now a creditor was coming break up her home and sell her sons into to slavery to pay the debts.  The widow’s future depended on how this crisis would be resolved.  With the death her husband, she lost her income.  The loss of her sons would cause the loss of her protection – her social security - in her later years. What could she do to solve this?  Where would the answer come?

In a crisis, the first place you turn can show you who or what you trust.  The widow turns to Elisha, the man of God, for guidance and help.  His questions were straightforward. What do you have in your house? His instructions were clear. Go borrow vessels (jars) from your neighbors and do not get a few. Shut yourself in your home and begin to pour out the oil.

 The widow did exactly as she was told. She and her sons pulled together what was required and did not hesitate to ask their neighbors for the help they needed.  She shut herself up in the house and reached for her little oil jar.   How could something so small fill so many vessels much larger than itself?  She believed God was able and began to pour. She poured and filled vessel after vessel, until every jar was filled and there were no more to borrow.  The debt could be paid with money to spare.  The oil multiplied to fill the need and overflowed to provide her family with a stable financial future.  That is how God solves problems.  He more than just fills the need.  He overflows.  His supply runs over.

That reminds me of an issue God solved that was bigger than the widow’s debts.

God had an issue one day. His precious children whom he had created sold themselves into slavery – the slavery of sin.  Owned by a hard taskmaster called Satan.  The Lord looked at all the majesty around Him seeking for something of true value to pay back His children’s debt.  Gold Streets?  No, not worth enough….  Pearl gates? Not worth enough…Jasper walls? Not worth enough.  Our debt was so large none of these things combined would buy back even one of His precious ones.  Then He looked into the eyes of His only beloved and asked “Son, are you willing?  You know what must be done.”  The beloved one answered, “Father, I’m willing and I submit to your wisdom.” The Son came to Earth and was pierced – crucified.  His blood ran everywhere. His blood poured filling vessel after vessel. Jesus emptied Himself of His blood and surrendered His life for us. His blood bought our freedom, just as the oil spared the widow’s children.  Just like the widow’s oil, there was more than enough blood to pay the price.  Blood to wash away sin. Blood to heal the broken.  Blood to free the captive.  Blood to overcome life challenges.  The debt was paid and we who have been set free live on the rest – the victory.

Go fill your jars; there is more than enough to go around.

Until next time,

Xylia

Remember Lot's Wife

by Xylia Sparks-Davis on 09/20/12

How many times have I been snatched out of danger by God only to run back in the fray myself?  I am so caught up in the drama of the moment that I cannot let go and move on.  I cannot see the big picture.  I have sabotaged my freedom and become frozen in place by the circumstances that have overtaken me.  I am a like a pillar of hardened salt – unyielding and unmovable.  I am trapped in the middle of a crisis where my presence was not necessary.

Remember Lot’s wife (Genesis 19)

Most of us know her as the woman captured forever as a pillar of salt near the coast of the Dead Sea.  She was the wife of Lot, the nephew of Abraham and Sarah.  When Abraham left homeland for promised one, they followed.  Abraham had initially chosen Lot as his heir, as Sarah wasinfertile.   Mr. and Mrs. Lot were to carry on the family line.  Once Lot became head of the tribe, his wife would have had the same prominence and importance that Sarah held.  This future was dashed when Abraham and Lot parted company over grazing rights and Lot moved his family near the five cities of the plain, particularly the fields near Sodom.

Sodom - a new place that brought with it new challenges and opportunities.  Mrs. Lot who was once one woman among many in the camp of Abraham, was now the lead woman in a household of her own.  Sarah was the “queen of the tribe” in Mrs. Lot’s old home – the authority among the women.  Mrs. Lot now had autonomy in her new life and no longer had to submit to a matriarch as to how her home should be run.  We don’t know what Mrs. Lot’s life was like in her new home.  She could have thrived in her new environment; climbed the social ladder; made killer deals in the food and textile markets; led the PTA; became a member of the Junior League or Jack and Jill.  However, she learned how to fit in; she appeared to be enjoying the changes that Sodom brought to her life.

The night the angels came to warn her family of the sudden destruction aimed for her town altered Mrs. Lot’s life on numerous levels.   Sodom had a crisis.  They had pained the heart of God with their actions and would be destroyed.  However, God had not lumped Lot’s family in with rest of the town. They were in Sodom but not of Sodom. God had provided a way out for them and sent an angelic escort for them to leave town.  They had just one key instruction “Do not look back.” 

I often wonder what was swirling around in Mrs. Lot’s mind as she walked away from Sodom and as she turned back. 

Sure, I’m alive, but is merely living enough?  I had finally carved a niche out for myself.   I’m walking out of Sodom and leaving behind, my circle, my status, and my friends.  All the work I have put into this new life is gone in a moment.  I have grown accustomed to my life and did not want to change again.  Now I have to go back. Go back to where?  Crawling back to Abraham as a failure from our destroyed town asking for a place his table? Go back to Sarah and submit to her leadership over the women of the tribe?  Maybe Lot won’t go to Abraham for help.  Maybe we’ll start afresh in a new town instead….Starting from scratch with limited resources and no name of importance in a new place?  This…this is too much…I have to get back to what I know…to what feels comfortable...I don’t want to move…I don’t want to change…I don’t want to grow…I…have…to …get…back…… (turn)

…And then she was salt.  Mrs. Lot was hardened in her resolve not to change and refused to fully release her fears to the God who rescued her.  She had just been snatched from a horrible fate. Sodom would have been a smoldering pile of rubble in just a few hours. She had escaped the crisis. However, she did not trust that the same God that had pulled her out of the drama would also have a bigger and better plan for her life.  Instead, her heart clung to what it was leaving - no matter how high the cost.  She became monument to the price of being unwilling to change.

When crisis comes and you think you don’t have the strength or the courage to change, remember Lot’s wife, release your fears and move forward.

Until next time,

Xylia

Luke 17:32, 33: Remember Lot’s wife. “Whoever seeks to keep his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life will preserve it. 

Comments (1)

1.Antannia Aguilar said on 9/20/12 - 04:02PMThis was very good. Never thought about her story in detail like that. Very eye opening.

If I could just touch the hem....

by Xylia Sparks-Davis on 09/13/12

Sometimes it feels that God is so far away. Mentally I know that He is right next to me in every situation and every crisis.  Emotionally the problems of my life seem so heavy that He feels light years away and I need to cut through the darkness just to get near Him and feel Him close to me. 

 I wonder if this how the woman with the issue of blood felt in Luke Chapter 8.  She was overloaded with medical bills, a seemingly incurable disorder that her doctors could not identify and one dashed hope of getting well after another.  She had tried everything she could think of to get well and restore her finances but nothing worked.  She hoped that tomorrow would bring a better day and sadly awakened to frustration the next morning.  Darkness was looming in her life with no end in sight.

 Her blood flow isolated her.  She was ritually unclean according to the rules that governed her community which limited what she could do and where she could go. She could not participate in corporate worship or temple ceremonies.  She could not start or add children to her family.  She should not have even been in the crowd surrounding Jesus that day. 

She was holding onto one thing – Faith.  The faith that her life would not always look like this; that God had more for her than merely being  bound by sickness, financial trouble and isolation.  She realized that though her problems were not solved, God was still with her.  If she could reach out and hope one more time...if she could just touch Jesus her life could be transformed.   She looked beyond this season of her life and focused on where she wanted to be – healed and whole on every level.  This is the woman who we find the crowd on that day seeking Jesus, a woman who was tired being bound; who knew there was more for her; and had just enough strength to reach out her hand.  One more time, she stretches out her hand and grabbed the fringes of Jesus’ prayer shawl.  Immediately healing flowed from His wings and she was healed.  Restoration would be the next chapter of her life.

So the next time you and I have a crisis that makes it feel that God is not near we need to press in closer; hold on to our faith in Him and reach.  Restoration can be our next chapter too.

Until next time

 Xylia